About Me

Hi! I’m Lindsey, your Sexuality and Kink Coach.

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I have a Master’s Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling with a concentration in Transpersonal Wilderness Therapy from Naropa University. I identify as Pansexual, Polyamorous, and Gender-Fluid. My preferred pronouns are she/her/hers, though I often feel the full spectrum from she to they to he. I’m bilingual in English and Spanish, and I love to dance.

My inspiration for my work comes from the natural world around me. If you look at the plants and animals, there is so much to see. Each plant and creature is unique and here for a specific purpose. And nature is also very queer! There are many animals that have sex with their same gender and some species that can change their gender halfway through their life! Not to mention all the asexual and hermaphroditic creatures. Nature is where I look to see what is “normal.” And trust me, it’s weirder than we could ever be, so we’re in the clear!

Therapy vs. Coaching

Through my extensive training as a therapist, I have learned trauma based modalities for working with clients. I invite you to be with any emotions that arise during our sessions, and I can hold space for that. In this work, though, instead of doing deep dives into trauma, like in therapy, we will focus more on your strengths and gifts in life and relationship. I will help you reframe beliefs you have about yourself and teach you how to treat yourself as your primary partner and lover!


Qualifications

  • Master of the Arts in Clincal Mental Health Counseling with a concentration in Transpersonal Wilderness Therapy

  • Somatic Sex Therapy Trainings Levels 1 and 2 with Melissa Walker, DMT LPC

  • Rebel Love Sex Therapy Training with Dr. Chris Donaghue, PhD

  • Wilderness First Responder

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I specialize in:

  • Sex/Sexuality

  • Conscious Kink/BDSM

  • LGBTQIA+

  • Genderfluidity/ Non-binary

  • Healthy communication strategies

  • Attachment theory

  • Mindfulness

  • Listening to the body

  • Healing through BDSM/ Kink

  • Reconnecting you with your intuition

  • Womyn empowerment

  • Divine masculinity

  • Working with blockages that keep you stuck